I made reference to your age because your first opening section of the thread sounded like a young man wanting to know the right thing to do and I thought that was great! As you've continued to post and get your lself all wadded up I can say as a guy who works with kids, you dont sound like a teenager. I now must assume you already have your mind made, and that you were seeking the approval of people you've never met on a world wide internet forum.
I dont care if you are 13 or 35. I was just trying to offer some help. If your a kid, then your one of the argumentative thick headed types that were being discussed and I think y should relax and do what you feel is right. If your a grown man, then update your stats, its a little strange to present yourself as a 13 year old