A little something to think about

Hey, jmo ca10j, but the one thing that I see wrong with all of this is just what most are saying... There is a way to have a friendly discussion with out having an arrogant attitude. I am young myself, and I HAVE been through a lot in my day. I used to have the same chest pumping attitude when I was challenged on my opinions and beliefs as well. I have not served in the armed forces, I am not a policeman or firefighter, but I have been a working tax payer for the past 12 years, and also have a college education. During this time, what's seems to be a life time, I have learned one very important lesson. That is to know your "opponent" and to pick your battles. This has also continued into having two of my best friends die within a month of each other, purchasing my first home, getting married, my daughter being born premature and having to be care flighted a hour away, one of my best friends screwing me over royally, starting the hog doggin' life style, and the list continues to build. So the only advice that I can give you because you do seem to be a smart individual is sometimes less is more. It seems like you "know" what you believe in, but it also seems it is loosely based as well. For you to take such a defensive stand also shows that you are not so sure about some things too. There is not always a need to battle, fight, or argue when you "know" something to be true, and are not open to any other opinions or suggestions. A lot of the folks who commented on this post probably have 10 years or more on you... And I'm sorry but with age comes experience, and that's something that you can't buy or find from being abroad for a little amount of time. So my only suggestion would be pay attention. You'll find that the more you listen the more people will talk, and some of that conversation could give you a new light on life. This is a great board and there are plenty of people willing to help you learn and give you advice and suggestions, but they will not do that if you don't have the right attitude. I hope you find something that will humble you as I did at my young age, and that it will prepare you better for your years to come. Best wishes.