Message #313589

[texasangel]

Im going to throw my 2 cents in here just to give yall an understanding about charles and why we do what we do. yes i am his wife and i support him in leaving me to work overseas. I have been a military wife for 8 years and went through 3 deployments with charles. My mind set is if i can handle those deployments i sure as hell can handle this. for one he is in no way in danger. I guess im a tough army wife and independent i learned to live that way with being a military family. I work full time at fort hood i have our dogs, family and friends that im always around and most go through the same thing im in. do i want my husband home hell yes but i know in the end we can live a little bit more comfortable. the military taught me alot but it broke us money wise. i know money is not everything believe i know. but with him working overseas it is getting us out debt getting our credit better got us our land and house. i firmly believe in everything happens for a reason and we all learn from our choices. charles was able to get a new job learning something new that he has always wanted to do and i knew in achieving that goal he would have to leave again i understood that bc he let me achieve my dreams. this new job also brings him a better chance of having a good job bck home here at fort hood once he gets done overseas and now a days the chance for a good long time job is far few in between i know once he is done overseas we have a better chance at finally being stable within our jobs. i have that stability and long term i want charles to have that to. i know this situation doesnt fit everybody but we all make sacrifices to make our lives better. i just sacrifice time with my husband. it just makes me cherish that times and texts and phone calls more. we dont go a day without talking to one another. some people on here might think he has no heart but thats bc yes he comes across that way on here but meet him in person get to know him u will see he does (sorry babe for blowing ur cover) just ask his friends and family he does alot for so many people i guess thats one reason we got in so much debt bc we helped out friends. now his son thats a whole different story. charles is a good father even if he dont believe it. he does spend time with him when he can yes its hard when u live 3 hrs away. im not going to get into a big spill about his son bc there is so much backstory to the whole situation. his son knows he is loved by his dad. charles is a good dad good husband and just wants to provide to the best of his ability and he is a guy with a tough outside and softy inside that he only shows to a few people. thats my spill thanks for ur prayers