Charles I almost didn't post this because I was afraid people would get the wrong idea about me. I don't believe the Bible allows me to use either based on the some of the writtings in the pastoral letters that give qualifications for elders and deacons and I honestly don't. I've tried both when in high school and didn't care for them. I just can't seem to understand why we look at the 2 in such a different light is all.