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« on: March 28, 2012, 10:23:07 am » |
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Ryan. We all "teach people how to treat us". You have allowed them to treat you a certain way, so they think it is acceptable. This does not mean you have to be rude. Just firm. That is what Dub did in his interview.
That does not mean that you will work there. If you are chewed out for being a minute late and point out that you are normally 30 mins early so you expect some understanding ... and that is insufficient for your boss ... you may have to decide to change jobs.
Through our actions and conversations we will teach people how to treat you. If they can't treat me the way I expect ... I tell them. If that proves (over time) that it will not work ... I remove them from my life. Whether it is a job, social group, friends, etc. ... I leave or they leave if they do not treat me appropriately.
As to the job. If it makes you miserable ... it is a bad job. It is then time to find a good one. Start looking.
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