how many of u guys/or ladies have this happen to

I got a buddy like that, we still hunt a little but not much. Been friends for 30 years. Turns out his wife has a gambling addiction and unfortunately she was supposed to be paying the bills. Well he lost everything house included. His fault for not watching the finances but she's to blame. He said we're gonna work it out so I figured well it's none of my business, but me, him and his brother in law are talking finances one day and she walks over to give us financial advice. lol. Brother in law walked away I told my buddy your a bigger man than me got in my truck and left. Can't even stand to be in the same house as her now.