My dad gets stopped and questioned every time he flys because there is a man on the FBI's most wanted list with the same first and last name (middle name is different). It wouldn't be so bad if they confirmed he isn't the same guy and let him go but they take him and interrogate him every time and always misses his flight.
Hmmm....
would you say the same thing if this was happening to your mother, father, grandmother, or grandfather?