I need some prayers

She won't even talk to me. I was kind of a jerk. I have been told that I get scary when I get mad. I would never raise a hand to my wife or even threaten her. It all comes down to how I want my family to be and her turning to someone else for advice and ignoring me. Well one of my sons is home schooled. He never gets one days work done in one day. I told my wife to try something this morning and of course she was mad at me and told me to do it. At 9:57 A.M. this morning he was finished with 1/3 of his day's work. I am letting him take a break and the rest will be done by noon. This afternoon I will have him do tomorrow's work so we can go fishing tomorrow. She will still be mad at me. Forget the talking I will let my actions speak for me.