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Very good points by a lot of guys, and I'm going to give an opinion not advice. I have applied some of the tactics I use in everyday life from work to marriage. I do investigations for a living and not criminal ones when someone gets hurt in my profession I'm the one doing the root cause analysis to change things like corrective actions and policies and procedures to stop or better prevent it from happening again. Most of the time and I'm mean 90% of the time what ends up as the root cause is the lack of communication, from not wearing there protective equipment or not following the right procedures why they are not doing this because no one told them to, or they didn't know the procedure because they weren't taught too. So back to the marriage part if you come in from work or hunting and she is in a pissy mood and you look at her and walk away and go too bed the situation doesn't get better it either stays the same or gets worse. But if you give her five minutes to explain her self and truthfully listen, even if its because she broke a nail and you honestly don't give a flying F*^¥, just listen COMMUNICATE. Don't let it get you or her down, just talk about something you both might enjoy talking about to change the subject, hopefully change the mood cause if MOMMA is pissed everybody is that, is why this thread was started!!!!!
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Logged
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God gave you two ears and one mouth meaning you should listen twice as much as you talk.
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