great clarification between the tag along and the buddie/partner..buddie/partner are like friends, tag along is like acquaitance.....agree about the first date aspect of it all...this topic might not get a lot of buzz over here cause i think most everyone on here has their own spots, but i figure that might be a few people on here that are like me and is always the tag along because we don't have any spots just yet....just wanted to possibly help any of those who were/are in the same boat as me...