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« on: March 10, 2013, 05:50:37 pm » |
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I just had knee surgery an cant get to rough right now but my wife's grandmother an uncle rent a house from us an here the past month he can't come up with his part remember he is her family not mine what would y'all do
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charles
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« Reply #1 on: March 10, 2013, 06:39:19 pm » |
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Its family, if it aint causing or gonna cause a finacial hardship for ya, cut'm some slack. Its our job to care for our elders when they get on up in their yrs.
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Why should I trade one tyrant three thousand miles away for three thousand tyrants one mile away? An elected legislature can trample a man's rights as easily as a king can!
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« Reply #2 on: March 10, 2013, 07:12:30 pm » |
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Its family, if it aint causing or gonna cause a finacial hardship for ya, cut'm some slack. Its our job to care for our elders when they get on up in their yrs.
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« Reply #3 on: March 10, 2013, 07:58:02 pm » |
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Her uncle is only 35 years old
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« Reply #4 on: March 10, 2013, 08:07:18 pm » |
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Not knowing sitiuation can't really say. If he blows money on dumb number 2 is he just strapped for cash???
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charles
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« Reply #5 on: March 10, 2013, 08:14:19 pm » |
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i would have to agree with boarhunter now that uv said his age. it does suck to help family out to get bent over the table by them, but like boarhunter said, dont know the full situation.
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Why should I trade one tyrant three thousand miles away for three thousand tyrants one mile away? An elected legislature can trample a man's rights as easily as a king can!
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« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2013, 08:59:53 pm » |
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I guess that depends on if you want to sleep in the bed or on the couch!!!! LOL
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« Reply #7 on: March 10, 2013, 09:04:40 pm » |
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He's 35. Pay his part or get to stepping. Grandmaws utilities will be less and she will not have to worry with him
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« Reply #8 on: March 10, 2013, 09:09:04 pm » |
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at that age if you take care of him you might be doing more harm than good.
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« Reply #9 on: March 10, 2013, 10:33:23 pm » |
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Is it all the time or just this month? Put him to work around your place. Work him hard enough that in the future he'd rather pay than work for you.
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« Reply #10 on: March 10, 2013, 10:47:21 pm » |
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Is it all the time or just this month? Put him to work around your place. Work him hard enough that in the future he'd rather pay than work for you.
X2, Let him work it off.
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« Reply #11 on: March 11, 2013, 07:45:01 am » |
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That's a great idea an this is only the second month an he has not payed either month yet he just got out of jail he went to work soon as he got out but that was the deal he would move in with his mother an help her pay the bills cause I was paying half for her cause she's not able to work i don't mind helping her at all it just seems to me an pay day he always says hes broke.
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« Reply #12 on: March 11, 2013, 11:37:30 am » |
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That's a great idea an this is only the second month an he has not payed either month yet he just got out of jail he went to work soon as he got out but that was the deal he would move in with his mother an help her pay the bills cause I was paying half for her cause she's not able to work i don't mind helping her at all it just seems to me an pay day he always says hes broke.
Sorry but family or not he would be headed down the road, hell you were already paying his 1/2 anyway, if he ain't gonna pay it then get him gone........sorry but I don't do well with freeloaders.....if he is working and agreed to pay rent but can't then where the hell is his money goin?? I gotta get up before the crack of dawn and work all dang day to pay for my bills, I ain't gonna pay for someone else to live free!
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« Reply #13 on: March 11, 2013, 11:57:17 am » |
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That's a great idea an this is only the second month an he has not payed either month yet he just got out of jail he went to work soon as he got out but that was the deal he would move in with his mother an help her pay the bills cause I was paying half for her cause she's not able to work i don't mind helping her at all it just seems to me an pay day he always says hes broke.
Sorry but family or not he would be headed down the road, hell you were already paying his 1/2 anyway, if he ain't gonna pay it then get him gone........sorry but I don't do well with freeloaders.....if he is working and agreed to pay rent but can't then where the hell is his money goin?? I gotta get up before the crack of dawn and work all dang day to pay for my bills, I ain't gonna pay for someone else to live free! Agreed Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I847 using Tapatalk 2
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« Reply #14 on: March 11, 2013, 05:23:21 pm » |
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If dude can't come up with the $$, I'm sure I could find enough work around the two houses to keep him busy. The yard can always use a mowing, maybe walking my dogs, rotating my tires, etc. THE LIST would be worse than getting a job or paying the rent.
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« Reply #15 on: March 11, 2013, 06:13:44 pm » |
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Work him like a rented mule, if your like me I got kennels need cleaning Fences need fixing yard need mowing. You can dang sure stay busy or start Kicking rocks
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« Reply #16 on: March 11, 2013, 09:38:38 pm » |
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Hell send him my way for a weekend, i got 2.5 acres that needs new fence!!
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« Reply #17 on: March 13, 2013, 02:41:01 pm » |
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Hell send him my way for a weekend, i got 2.5 acres that needs new fence!!
When u get done with him, send him my way, i got bout the same amount that needs a fence up
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Why should I trade one tyrant three thousand miles away for three thousand tyrants one mile away? An elected legislature can trample a man's rights as easily as a king can!
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« Reply #18 on: March 13, 2013, 05:30:05 pm » |
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It depends on your situation. If that is an income for you then I would tell them you can help with rent somewhere else but you need the rent paid by someone. Now if you don't need the money go talk to them about lowering the rent or something. You have to handle it nice but you don't have to give people a free place to live. I hope they at least are keeping the place up.
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« Reply #19 on: March 13, 2013, 06:07:40 pm » |
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Make him pay 10 extra dollars a day until he gets it payed. If he dont pay kick his !@# out. People go through tough times, but some people are sorry low lifes that want a free ride. Which one do you have living at your rent house? if he is a low lifes go ahead and kick him out now save yourself some future headaches.
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